Watch Your Mouth!

“Stop all your dirty talk. Say the right thing at the right time and help others by what you say.” Ephesians 4:29 CEV

This was my memory verse for today and I must tell you it hit me right between the eyes. Not that I curse like a sailor…whatever that means, cause I have known several sailors who do not curse at all…but it hit me because of the level of vulgar language in our society today. Everywhere you turn foul language prevails. I was shocked lately by the language on a television show…presumably a kids show (at least I thought it was cause I was watching it with my kids)…at 6:00 in the evening! In addition to the vulgarity, this verse also speaks to the destructive power of words. And perhaps more damaging to people today is the ability some have to use words to tear down the spirit of others. As I understand these words from Paul, this is not a suggestion but rather a commandment. We are to use our words intentionally, as tools of encouragement for the building up of others. I would see this as first the words that come from our mouths, but also the words we allow others to speak. I know I cannot stop someone from saying something if they are intent upon saying it, but I can turn off the television or radio, or remove myself from the immediate circumstances. If you think words are not really that important, remember the words of James? “My dear friends, with our tongues we speak both praises and curses. We praise our Lord and Father, and we curse people who were created to be like God, and this isn't right” (James 3:9-10 CEV).